Courage + Self-esteem = Confidence
"It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes"
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How to be Confident ( Dos and Don'ts )
The next time you're feeling shy and overwhelmed , try out these DOs and DON'Ts to make others think you're feeling completely confident (even if you're not).
- DON'T wear dull colors
- DO get your body language right
Hold your head high no matter how nervous you feel. Don't clasp your hands in front of you or fold them. It's much better to stand with your arms hanging relaxed at your sides. Sit with your hands resting loosely in your lap.
- DON'T hide behind your hair.
Let people see your face. Hair swept back into a near ponytail says that you're okay about people looking at you.
- DO smile
People often confuse shyness with unfriendliness. A smile shows you're friendly and makes people relaxed around you.
- DON'T talk too quickly
Relax and take a deep breath. Take your time and give yourself a chance to think about what you want to say . Avoid just blurring out the first thing that comes out into your head.
- DO look people in the eye
One of the most obvious signs of shyness is when you avoid making eye contact with the person you're talking to.
- DON'T chew your nails
Nibbling on fingers is a dead giveaway that you're feeling nervous.
- DO lift your spirits with a scent
Apply a dot of grateful or another citrus essential oil on your wrists before heading out the door in the morning. Both are uplifting scents that are great for boosting your confidence.
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